The Monthly Chat


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Printable bits of wisdom, ideas, and reflections for your friends and
homeschool group, from the users of HomeschoolClassifieds.com
Opinions expressed are those of the individual authors.
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Other
I Said No to Homeschooling

I am the mom of four gifted children. As many of you are aware, gifted children have many challenges. They are in constant need of input! My children have been very active in so many ways.

I had no formal training as a teacher and I always told myself that I would never, ever homeschool my children. Never say never! Several years ago I found myself at a place that I needed to begin homeschooling! My third and fourth child, then a junior and freshman in high school were in need of my services! I really felt as if I was going to die, it was the biggest stretch for me. I told myself over and over that I was not equipped for this mission and that I could not do it. But I felt that this was the best option for them at this time and I felt led to do homeschooling. And so I found a school that supported homeschooling and began the journey.

It was such a blessing to have a homeschool coordinator to lead me. If it wasn't for her, I do not think that I could have done it. She was such a wonderful support and she was a constant encourager to me. She was patient with me as I took my first baby steps as an "older" homeschool mom. The paper work was overwhelming at first and she never seemed to mind going over that paperwork "one more time" with me.

My days as a homeschool mom are about to end. My daughter is now a sophomore in college and my son graduates from high school this spring. I am so grateful for my homeschool experience now. I know I really helped my kids prepare for the next phase of their journey because of the great investment that I made in them, and homeschooling is such a great and worthwhile investment. Homeschooling allowed me to teach my kids things that mean the most to me. I was able to teach them about the Civil War, and within that study, to bring out the great need to respect all races and to value human dignity and life. I could go on and on. I just want to encourage the person that might be considering homeschooling -- it is such a worthwhile endeavor.
mombooks
 
Other
Enjoy your children? What a thought!?!?

Not the deepest of thoughts but one that enters my mind numerous times a day. How do parents not enjoy their children?
Mine are a constant source of awe, laughter with and enjoyment to my husband and I. Yes, you know I have to say it...and often a source of humor...hey, they will giggle at us went we're old so we should get to giggle at them when they're little...all in good spirit of course.
At the source of it all, as with everything, is attitude. If you believe the pop-culture that your kids were put here to make you miserable, well, YOU will let them.
We all have responsibilities but letting our children see us carrying out those responsibilities WHILE living each day as if you were that young again and, most importantly, enjoying their company will not only let them know they are loved, but will teach them to spread that love as well.
They grow up too fast! EVERYONE (including the always busy mom) can be responsible and then take the time and play dolls, cars, do crafts, jump on the trampoline, play hide-and-seek, and build forts and grand castles!! Don’t forget to PLAY (that’s what they will remember most!)!!!!
My ramblings for the evening.
:-) Rachel, thankful to be on this journey and helping these little souls through this beautiful life!!
fivelakesacademy

Other
Said by a Native Indian (Cree)

"Only when the last tree has withered, the last fish has been
caught, and the last river has been poisoned, will you realize you
cannot eat money."

For all that are in the trouble times of this recession, we must
remember that everyone has their own agendas, stories, and
time of need. We should all reflect on the good times and the
trouble times to help one another when the time comes.
usedabekabks4sell
 
Science: general
Photos of real Snowflakes - website

I came across this wonderful website with amazing photos of real snowflakes (snow crystals).

http://snowflakebentley.com/snowflakes.htm

Go to the "Home" page on the website to see this history of how the photos were done and some informatuion about Mr. Bentley, the photographer.

The man who did this work is long dead, but I thought it was appropriate time of year to post this since many folks are growing weary of snow and ice! May this impart a new perspective!

Blessings,
Debbie in Raleigh
cci-lbs

Organization/time management
Busy days...expected or unexpected

We all get hit with a busy day here and there. Sometimes they are planned, sometimes they are not. Instead of just throwing all schoolwork out the window on those days, I've devised a back-up plan. I sat down and figured out the main things I want each child to have learned by the end of the year. These are the areas in which they need more work...basic skils, etc. For example, I would like to see huge improvements in my oldest's math, spelling, and handwriting this year. My youngest needs work on reading, and handwriting. I am calling these their "Core subjects". I printed up a page for each, listing their core subjects plus piano practice (and typing practice for my oldest). On those busy days, we drop History, science, latin, read-a-louds, etc. and just do the core schedule. It doesn't take very long, they get practice in the areas that need most help, and I don't feel guilty!
photomama

Other
Saving Money on Books

Save money, have your students write all work on separate piece of paper. Lined paper is relatively inexpensive, especially if you get those back-to-school deals. Don't let them write in the student workbooks. There are a lot of teacher's editions/guides and answer keys on the market, but not very many student workbooks. Then if the workbook is in good condition, you can resell it, with the teacher's key/guide as a matching set!
Another thing that can be done is buy the quiz/test key only and cover the answers with paper and secure with a small piece of tape. The student can put their answers on the paper, then you can remove the paper to view the answers for correcting.
boofin
 
Organization/time management
Organizing -work or play???

If you are overwhelmed by the "clutter" around you - whether it is the kitchen, books, bedrooms, etc...then get busy playing. That's right, I said playing---if you are guilty of moping or walking around nagging about cleaning--you are letting the "stuff" control your life. Get busy with the kids and act like cleaning and organizing is fun and in just a few short minutes - they'll want in on the "fun" too. Put some uplifting music on and try it (it really works and remember you are helping them to become who they are). This "play" is catagorized under "life skills" and is definately counted as school - Happy homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Unit studies
Download N Go

Written by Amanda Bennett and the Old Schoolhouse Magazine. These are awesome! Seriously all the preparation needed is that you download the unit and GO! Start your journey as soon as the pages are printed by clicking on the links to go to the suggested sites and start your learning adventure. You don't even have to find books from the library although there are suggested books during each day of the study that you can use. We started "Destination Australia" today and really had fun. The kids are proud of the work they completed and have already shown it off to other family members!
maadrose

Lang arts: spelling/vocab
All About Spelling

This is such an awesome spelling program. It uses the Orton-Gillingham method of learning which uses phonics rules and hands-on learning. This program is for all students and works well with students with dyslexia or other such learning disabilities. My daughter just started level 5 and spelling has become her favorite subject! We thoroughly enjoy this spelling program as it is easy to use and is fun for the student. Another plus is that it has built in review to keep the rules fresh in the student's mind.
maadrose

Bible & Spiritual growth
An Exhortation for Home Schoolers

Deuteronomy 6:5-9
Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates.
swsbg1
 
Handwriting
Make it fun!!!

Handwriting can become quite the "chore" rather quickly. Why not try writing in a journal about things that interest your child? Try writing about those infamous lego structures your little one has been developing or the neverending doll tea your daughter just set up for her lovely friend. These will get your kids writing much faster and it will be way more fun to them than writing the same old thing over and over and over again. Who says learning can't be fun!! Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Marriage & parenting
Enjoying your kids

Sometimes we lose sight of what's really important when we are so busy in our days of homeschooling. I'd like to offer a little inspiration for everyone each day. Today, stop everything that is "scheduled" and sit down with your kids somewhere relaxing and cozy. Take a moment to talk about their baby days (my kids love this) - you will get some much needed laughter and everyone will feel refreshed to do their "work". Happy Homeschooling and many blessings!
mammasdawlins

Lang arts: grammar/composition/writing
Creative Writing

I found that my children became really discouraged to find their literary "works" marked up with editing corrections. So, we chose an editing program (such as "The Great Editing Adventure" series or something similar) for learning to proof read. After they'd completed sections of that, we then incorporated it into their everyday writing for correction. Not only did it save them from being discouraged, it made corrections much easier too!
homzkool

Sewing & needlework
Sewing for your family

I really enjoy sewing for my family. I recently discovered a wonderful line of patterns that come from Europe. They are called Farbenmix. If you have ever seen them made up then you will truly know why I appreciate them! A new book has been published called "Sewing Clothes Children Love". It includes 10 full sized sewing patterns in all sizes for boys and girls. You should definitely check it out for some serious inspiration!
maadrose

Other
Snow Days

My seven year old doesn't yet understand why we don't take snow days when others do. But I think he'll be on board when our final day is mid-May and his cousins and friends are in school until mid June! :)
mommyoh
 
Math: fundamentals
Real life math

My kids had a blast going to the bank and getting their very own check registers the other day. We learned how a checking account works, deposits, credits, etc... and the importance of keeping track. This is a life skill sometimes parents forget to "teach" their children. Teach them while it's still "fun" and it won't seem like such a "chore" when they grow up and are on their own. Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Unit studies
Try a unit study!

If you are stuck in a "rut" and tired of the same old same old - try a unit study. It will get everyone energized and peak interests and refresh everyone's desire to learn. Go with your kids interest and let them guide you for a change of pace. You'll be surprised by what you will all learn together while having some fun and making memories. Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Health & PE
PE - how do you do it?

When you think of PE - do you get overwhelmed? Well, try changing the way you look at it. Think of PE and do something "fun". No one really says "yay let's do jumping jacks or sit ups", but how can you turn down a jumping on a trampoline or a bike ride with the kids. Just remember the "fun" things are PE too (cherish each moment). Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Math: fundamentals
Math Helps

When my kids were having trouble lining up math problems on regular lined paper, I switched to graph paper. I told them to simply place one number in every box to line up addition, subraction, multiplication, or division problems. That helped them a lot, especially with large addition/muliplication problems and with long division.
boofin

Sewing & needlework
Sewing by Hand

Learning how to sew by hand has many benefits. They are as follows: buying a machine is not necessary, no need of electricity, good exercise for the hands, and take your sewing projects anywhere.
Our children are learning how to sew and love it too.
honey
 
Baking & cooking
life skills, science, fun, and more

When you take the time to show your children how to bake/cook - you open up an opportunity for such memorable learning discussions. Measuring, nutrition, cleaning, budgeting meals, proper cutting skills, and most of all the importance of eating together as a family. Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Marriage & parenting
Where is your heart?

Is your heart in the right place? Do you think of your marriage and what you can do to make it better each day or are you in competition with your spouse (who works more or who is more tired, etc..) - where is your heart - put yourself in check each day! Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Homeschool helps
Inspirations

Make each day count!!! When you feel like giving up, just remember the bigger picture and why you are doing what you are doing in the first place. In other words, take a time out---enjoy each day, because you don't get to do that day over ever again. Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins

Lang arts: readers/literature
Reading with your children-priceless!

Really take the time to sit down each day and read with your children. You are not only bonding, sharing, communicating, but giving your children a gift from the heart that will last forever. Happy Homeschooling!
mammasdawlins