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Bible & Spiritual growth
Pharisee See

Pharisee See

Look past the sin and see the soul
Lost and dying, diseased, alone.
Christ came for all of these He said,
He suffered, died, and hurt and bled.
Why then are we so lifted up
In pride and pomp and ugliness.
I'm not like them, they cheat and lie-
Their wicked ways have gone awry.
They stumble by, in gutters lay.
"You vile wretch, there's hell to pay!"
Then God looks down with tears anew.
"I bought that wretch, that wretch is you!"
Humble yourselves this very day,
Get on your knees, begin to pray
Forgive me Lord for all my pride,
I too have lived a lurid lie,
Pretending to be better than all,
I've missed the mark, ignored the call
To love and serve with lowliness
These poor lost souls who need God's rest.
Look past the sin and see the soul
Christ longs to save and take control.
If we would only now obey
And see their souls and for them pray.

Jennifer A. Coulter September 26, 2009
jcoulter
 
Health & PE
Martial Arts - A Great Choice!

We have involved our children in MANY sports activities over the years. They've been in gymnastics, swimming, homeschool p.e. classes, basketball, ice skating, and martial arts.

Though team sports teach many quality lessons about supporting the whole even as an individual, winning and losing graciously, and perseverance - it can be more of a challenge to involve homeschool students in team sports. We have found that participation in martial arts accomplishes pretty much the same goals, even without tournament participation.

Our children learn respect for their instructor and for the other students. Honoring and obeying parents is a high priority as well. When one student makes a mistake during class - all receive discipline and it is served out as a team. They learn very quickly that they do not want to let down their classmates!

The instructor often speaks of responsibility and gives real-life examples of what he expects the children to reach for in becoming mature, responsible, caring adults. When sparring takes place, it is a time to do ones personal best and then be gracious at the end of the round and shake hands with the classmate who either won or lost.

Our children's instructor seems to know intuitively when his students have fear and he works to bring them to a point where they can face and overcome that fear. I have seen my children overcome much in the classes - and how it has also transferred into regular life and living.

Not only are my children learning how to effectively defend themselves, but they are gaining those positive team participation skills at the same time. I think that martial arts training is a wonderful way to fit physical education into the homeschool experience!
crochetmama
 
Organization/time management
Workbox Wonders

We started using a modified workbox system in this, our third year of homeschooling. I purchased a dozen plastic paper trays at a garage sale for a dollar. We stacked them in two stacks and taped library pockets on the side of each, numbered from 1 to 12. I wrote "DONE" on the back so it doesn't show when a card is inserted in the pocket. As each assignment is done, we pull the card until all the pockets are empty.

I had my doubts. Last year we used a checklist, and school often dragged on until after dinner. My highly creative, distracted 4th grader just didn't understand the concept of checking things off the list. Why would workboxes be any different?

We started in August. Each morning, I put the books, directions, pencils, and supplies in the trays. To my surprise, we are done with school by 2:30 every day! All the assignments are complete. We have had no big battles about getting back to work. If we start late, we have lunch late! We eat lunch after assignment #5. Why? I don't know, but it works. The work gets done!

"Why?" I asked. Our secret is putting the numbers across the 2 stacks, not down one side first (rows, not columns). My daughter told me, "I feel impelled to go this way." Apparently, this motivates her to go to the next assignment. With the list, she had to decide which one to do next. This decision confused her and wasted a lot of time.

I still don't understand why this works for her, but I am very happy about it. This is more like home school the way I imagined it.
jovick

Homeschool helps
The Devil's in the Details

My life has always been focused on details - no matter if it was school work, crafts, chores, creative outlets, work in the secular world and now homeschooling my three children.

What used to be special touches that made things beautiful somehow became drudgery. I realized this morning in my private time that I have been so frustrated by every little thing that crops up, I have not been giving my children the attention they deserve. I have not been providing them with the 'details' to make their world beautiful.

Self-awareness of my shortcomings is not pleasant at best and can be quite painful at worst. But through God's prompting this morning I realized that the old adage of "the devil's in the details" is only so if you allow it to be.
jharee
 
Sewing & needlework
Benefits of Crochet!

This is a fun list I came up with when preparing to teach crochet classes a few years ago. I could add to it that it calmed my kinesthetic learner during reading times! He would finger crochet (just using his index finger instead of a crochet hook) entire skeins of yarn - and then repeat, crocheting the chain into a new chain - until he had a very thick rope that could be made into an Indiana Jones whip! (He's a very creative child!)

Why it’s Great to be a Crocheter:
· it helps with dexterity
· it helps with eye & hand coordination
· it helps with concentration
· it increases math skills
· it is relaxing to do
· you can add it to other types of art
· you can make items to give, or keep
· you can do it with a brother, a sister, or a friend
· you can do it while snuggled up with Mom or Grandma
· and best of all, it’s fun!

If you are interested in learning how to crochet - or advance your current skills - there are many free websites on-line that offer this kind of help! So many free patterns are also available on-line - it really is a very inexpensive hobby!
crochetmama

Organization/time management
Reinforcement

Our family takes an annual vacation to the same area every year, as do lots of home school families. We take the time to include some historical sites that correspond with each of our child's current curriculum. Taking a day or afternoon to make a side-trip all about that single child's school year (or just one unit) really reinforces the learning experience and I have found it irreplaceable. There is nothing like walking on the battlefields they've just read about, or visiting the reservations of American Indians they are studying. Visiting monuments or just hiking someplace they've imagined while doing they're school work is a wonderful, useful experience that all children should enjoy. But as homeschool families we have a rare opportunity. You'd be surprised at how many "hidden gems" are not far from the places you travel often, take time to search them out. Use your vacations for more than just taking a break from paper work, it makes a huge difference!
elbowers73
 
Organization/time management
Our Round-about Way to Work on This!

As homeschoolers, we have been able to participate in many wonderful activities - far more than we would've been able to if our children were in a regular school system.

These wonderful activities keep us VERY busy, however! I feel as if we are running to this or that more often then not. It does make actually sitting down and accomplishing our school and chores difficult. As my children have grown older, they are each realizing the importance of and their responsibility to do these tasks when they ARE home!

We have instituted "together time" and "work alone" time. "Together Time" takes place whenever we can fit it in at home. "Work Alone" items can travel around with us and the children are able to work at church (if I need to be there to work on things for our homeschool co-op), various lessons, or even on trips.

Before our children are allowed to have fun computer time (as opposed to school computer time!), all schoolwork and chores for that day must be completed. This has been a great incentive for them to get their responsibilities accomplished first!
crochetmama

Other
Volunteer Work at the Library

As your child grows and becomes more independent, he could benefit from being a volunteer. The local public library is a great place for a child to volunteer.

My son is starting his third year of volunteering for the library (he goes for two hours, once a week). His responsibilities include shelving books, picking up litter, getting books from the outside bin and bringing them inside, changing the lettering on signs, and special projects.

Volunteering at the library will teach your child a number of helpful skills and expose him to a better understanding of what is available at the library and how the library system functions.

It also provides a weekly opportunity for your child to check out new books, and this will foster a love of reading.

And, of course, it will be a big help to the librarians, who are facing budget cuts and decreased staffing in these challenging economic times.
weaver718
 
Organization/time management
Getting tasks done in minutes

Sometimes your plate can seem too full, and you wonder how you can get everything accomplished. I've found that using a timer can help me "find time" for jobs that I otherwise wouldn't be able to accomplish.

For example, set the timer for five minutes and do a quick cleanup of a problem area, such as an office. Then get back to whatever else you were doing. Even though the job is not "done," you will get some satisfaction out of the fact that some papers are filed, or some pencils are put away, or some things are thrown away.

Or set the timer for fifteen minutes and work on organizing a child's bedroom. When the timer goes off, you're done (for now).

Even if jobs aren't completed in full, you'll be surprised how much you can accomplish in "minutes."

Even a busy mom can find 5, 10 or 15 minutes here and there during her busy day to accomplish tasks that would otherwise go undone.
weaver718

Lang arts: readers/literature
Library Sales & Yard Sales

I have found terrific buys at Library Sales and Yard Sales and even
Salvation Army for readers, topical/science books, craft materials, framed
art, and other items that supplement our school curriculum. Just
yesterday, I found a world globe in excellent condition for a mere $3 at
Sal Val! Easy way to add to your educational experiences in an
inexpensive way.
jandusman

Homeschool helps
Learning Styles

How do you learn? How does your child learn? In the process of doing some internet research in preparation to homeschool, I found a wonderful website that discusses learning styles. The best part is the online questionaire in two versions, one for adults and one for "younger people." You only need to answer 16 questions and then click "ok" to see your (or your child's) score in each of four categories: visual, aural, read-write, or kinsethetic. Then read the help sheets that discuss strategies related to your learning style and preference. The website is: www.vark-learn.com
lschmit
 
Bible & Spiritual growth
God's Promise

Focus on God's sweet promise from Isaiah: "ALL thy children will be taught by the Lord, and GREAT shall be the PEACE of thy children. In righteousness thou shalt be established..."
I love this passage because it reminds me that my children will be filled with peace in a very tumultous world, and that if they are trained in the ways of the Lord, they will be established in righteousness. This brings me so much comfort!
junegordon

Bible & Spiritual growth
Beginning Another School Year

As you all begin yet another homeschool year let's remember to dedicate our school year to the Lord. And when you feel like giving up. remember we are homeschooling as unto the Lord.

The Lord spoke this to me this morning as I was starting to panic about homeschooling another year and I wanted to share it with you.
prv31wife

Homeschool helps
The best curriculum

When I started homeschooling, I was concerned about finding the best, or at least great, curriculum for my children. The BEST thing I learned to teach my children is character. Just being home with family gives kids a big start in this. No matter what studies they do they will be what they need to be if they have learned to exhibit Godly character.
lamplighthill

Lang arts: readers/literature
Make it Enjoyable

Not every kid will automatically take to reading. My best advice for learning to read is to read to your non reader every day. Let them choose the books they want to be read from- or at least let them choose from a good selection. I have had four of my own that learned this way and it was enjoyable for us all!
uneek

Science: general
Science help - organization

Need help getting your science labs and year organized? www.donnayoung.org is the web site to check out. She is a wonderful Christ filled women with many science helps that are free to use and share. You could spend hours on her site so watch out and block out an hour!
homeschoolx2