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Homeschool helps
What to Keep? What to Sell?

When first beginning to sell homeschool books, it can be difficult to determine which books need to stay on your home library shelves and which can be released to bless other homeschool families.

Here are some helpful guidelines:

Sell

Books commonly available at the public library—particularly if you live nearby
Grade specific curriculum your youngest child has outgrown; particularly math, science and language arts
Books no one in your home wants to read, especially if they are gathering dust

Keep

A few quality general reference guides: grammar, thesaurus, concordance and booklist guides
Each child’s one favorite book—this will be unique for each child and family
Books you’d love to read to your grandchildren some day

If you are in need of cash for the following year’s curriculum, you may want to sell more than you’d ordinarily keep. Or, if your storage space is limited, you’ll probably want to keep only the best of the best. Not every book will fall into this category.

One last tip is to trust your children! If they tell you they didn’t like a book—even if all the best homeschool programs love it, go ahead and sell. You’ll be blessing another family, making space for new and better books and keeping book clutter to a minimum.

Worst case scenario: You sell a book and you regret it. You can always re-buy it! This has happened to me one time in three years and I’ve sold hundreds of books. Don’t let worry be your guide.
sallyc
 
Homeschool helps
Maximizing the Middle School Years

During six, seventh and eighth grades, children go through wonderful and frightening changes. They progress from children to young adults. They start to develop their own goals. They begin to make their faith their own rather than just an extension of their parent’s. They also mature as students. To prepare middle schoolers for high school, students need an opportunity to become more responsible and independent in their studies.

To prepare our daughter for high school, we allowed her to become progressively more responsible for her school work. In sixth grade we give her full authority over scheduling and completing work in two of her most confident subjects. In seventh we added two more and by eighth, she was completely independent. She had some lumps and bumps along the way that taught her what to do and more importantly, what not to do.

This allowed my husband and me to determine if we would continue to homeschool her through high school or enroll her in the local public school. It was also an opportunity for her to learn to be an independent student in a safe environment.

We feel that not only did our daughter learn academics through middle school, she developed valuable life skills that would serve her well in high school, college and beyond.
sallyc

Bible & Spiritual growth
Christmas Prayer Chain

I saw this in some magazine, and thought it was a great idea! You know the red and green paper chains we used to make to decorate the Christmas tree with when we were kids? My son and I each pick someone we know that needs prayer. We write their name on a chain link, and add it to our paper chain.

We start this at the beginning of December, adding 2 names per day, and do this all the way till Christmas Day. By Christmas, your chain should be quite long! Each day during prayer time, remember the names on your chain, and pray for those you wrote down. This is a very easy way to teach your child to remember the needs of others. Every time we pray, my son reminds me ''don't forget our chain''! :)
kimberly66
 
Bible & Spiritual growth
Why, God?

My family and I are going through a lot lately - bills, sickness, spiritual battles. Nothing seems to being going right. One day, I bowed my head and whispered, ''Why, God? I'm so tired.'' I lifted my head, and God directed my eyes to my daily calendar, and whispered back to me:

The stronger the winds, the deeper the roots, and the longer the winds, the more beautiful the tree.
Charles R. Swindoll

Coincidence? Hardly. I showed my husband later on that day, and he said God showed him the same thing before I even got out of bed!

God is faithful. I am hanging onto this verse to get me through these trying times:

Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.

May God bless you and yours in the coming year! :)
kimberly66


Love your hubby

I am only married nine years, so I am not sure if I am worthy of giving such advice, but I just wanted to say ''Compliment your dear husband every day.''

Yes, we ladies love to hear compliments, but I am recently convicted to start boosting my dear husbands confidence. I believe our husbands long to hear how much we appreciate all they do for our families.

I also feel it is important for our little ones to hear our adoration for their Daddy. I can see how happy it makes my children when I tell Daddy how much he means to us.

Our men need our respect! They want to feel loved, and I
think many husbands feel loved when we affirm them.

Blessings ladies. May God protect our marriages, and fill our homes with His perfect Love!
wantingtobless
 
Bible & Spiritual growth
Small Groups and Spiritual Growth

I started a Bright Lights group a few months ago, and it has already blessed me so much! Bright Lights is a discipleship group for preteen girls that was started by Sarah Mally in 1996. There are now over 390 groups in the US and a few in other countries.

Even though I only have three girls, I have been able to see some fruit already! Person time with them has been so special.

Leading any kind of group makes for more learning for the person who is in charge. I've probably learned more from doing the in-depth studies before the lesson than the girls have just listening.

Leading a small discipleship group is a great way to grow spiritually!
joyfullyserving

Art & music
Homeschooling a Musician

I am a homeschooling dad and I have five children. We've homeschooled them all - I too, am a musician. Life as a musician can be difficult getting started, so it was imperative that I pushed my children musically when they were young. My 29-year-old is a full-time musician in Brooklyn. My 18-year-old practiced three hours a day to get where he is today - a gifted and talented pianist who just released his first CD.

Don't know how to encourage a musical child? Find an accomplished musician to mentor them - and NEVER say things like ''Can you make a living at that?'' Encourage and find the RIGHT teacher (crucial). But there's also a time to help them decide NOT to pursue music. Feel free to email me if you have questions I can help answer about training a musical child. Royce White
roycewhite

Homeschool helps
It Does Get Easier!!!

I would like to encourage all of you who are either new to homeschooling or who have little ones who are not quite ready for school. I am a mom of five and have been schooling at home for eight years. The first few years were really hard with toddlers, nursing infants, and a self-employed husband.

I began to find myself dreading the thought of five children to teach at the same time...I could barely handle two or three. This is the first year of having all of them in school ''full time''. It has been such a joy! Having everyone working at the same time has increased the harmony in our home and I am truly amazed at how much they are learning! So hang in there, it does get easier!
kimcooper
 
Homeschool helps
Starting Out Before You Are Starting Out

Something that has worked well for me is the fact that I joined forums and researched books/curricula, forums, co-ops, etc., one year before begining our first year of home education.

I spoke with seasoned home educators and sometimes went to look at their resources. I believe this has saved us much time and money in the long run! Research a little before jumping into purchases so you don't feel like you need to buy replacement things. So join early and get your feet wet!
bookbliss

Finance/Econ
Saving by Buying at Sales

I have come accross some great finds to build our homeshool library at public library sales. People donate books and resources for these fundraisers and then there are the library's ''retired'' books. Now at $.25 each, you cannot really go wrong...even if it is just for one-time use. Garage sales have also been a tremendous help (especially if you know of a homeschooler having one)!
bookbliss

Other
Why I Homeschool

I desire that my children grow in wisdom and stature and in favor with God. I would like to be able to say they walk the right path through life BECAUSE of being homeschooled, NOT in spite of being public schooled. I also would not trade for anything, being able to see those aha moments when they finally understand it-whatever IT is. I LOVE my children.
suzahb

Marriage & parenting
Enjoy the Here and Now

A trap I have fallen into in the past is always looking ahead. Although that is appropriate at times, don't lose sight of the here and now. Enjoy the stage your child is in now and don't miss out on the blessings.
debhomeschool

Baby & infant
Carrying Baby

With our 3rd child I finally realized that babies LOVE to see what we're doing! Our little one loves being in a bouncy seat or on my hip, or in an Ergo carrier while I make dinner, clean, etc. Enjoy!
kauaii