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Sewing & needlework
Teaching our daughters

I was raised by very permissive and modern parents. Life was easy! After marrying and becoming a Christian I realized that I was not prepared to take care of a family and it's been a challenge to teach myself what I hadn't learned as a girl.

We now start to teach the art of keeping a home from early childhood. By the age of 10 a daughter is able to make simple healthy meals, care for a young sibbling, wash / hang / fold laundry, kitchen clean up duty, chicken / fowl care, hoeing and harvesting a garden, helping with the canning, and sewing.

I am very thankful that sewing is a skill I learned early on. At the age of 13 I could already make my own garments. That skill has become very valuable since we were led to dressing modestly and our daughters are now learning to make their garments too.

Book learning is not all there is to teaching a daughter. Practical skills that will be used daily are most important to teach also. It can be a daunting task, I know, but thankfully there are some good resources out there for home educating parents.
blessedmama

Unit studies
Correlating Your Subjects

In order to help your younger children get a better grip on history, art, and science try joining them together. For instance, in teaching history, include a study of art that was done during that era and a discovery in science that also happened during that era. For art you could take your child to a Handel's Messiah concert, for example, if that is the era in history that you are studying. Then they get a complete picture of that time period.

Twenty-four years ago, my high school did this with us, using the English literature book ''Cold River'' . The event in the book took place in our area many years before. The Outdoor Education class planned a weekend trip to Cold River and studied survival methods in the wilderness, while the science and history department of the school talked about the history of the area and studied the effects of hypothermia. These are some ways to get you to think creatively and make learning more enjoyable.
raeroh
 
Marriage & parenting
Couch Time

This concept was introduced to my husband and I years ago as a means of briefing each other on the day's events as well as having the children see that Mom and Dad are O.K. with each other.

After Dad walks in the door and greets everyone and gets settled, he takes his wife and they sit down on the couch together. The children and phone calls are not allowed to interrupt this except in the case of dire emergency. Children that want to talk to their parents and are not obeying get spanked and instructed again ''Not now dear, you may not interrupt''. Mom and Dad take 15-20 minutes of uninterrupted time to talk and catch up.

The effect is security for the children. I have been told of cases where children who were out of control even after spankings have totally changed in behavior after this little exercise has been established. Even five minutes is better than nothing. The marital relationship comes first and a good one is the very thing that brings stability to the home.
raeroh

Lang arts: spelling/vocab
Spelling test tapes - by family and friends

I am blessed to have a family supportive of homeschooling, although they live far away. I purchased cassette tapes from a company that sold 6 minute tapes. That's just long enough for a spelling test! After getting the family's permission, I sent them the spelling list and a blank, but labeled tape. They recorded the tests, and sent it back to me. (There's room for a practice and a final test on each tape.)

This enables my children to go take a spelling test, even though I'm busy at the time. It also gives them some contact with distant family members. And although my dad passed away 4 years ago, he's still giving tests to my children! What a joy to hear his cheery voice again, encouraging my children to do their best!
hwplady
 
Homeschool helps
Follow your heart!

When I first started homeschooling I tried something new constantly. My Poor Kids! Even when we found something that worked well for us I would be tempted to change because I heard of something better or thought another family was doing a better job.

I have learned to stick with what works, and to follow my heart. My kids are eager to learn and we know how they learn. I just have to stay focused on those traits and not be distracted by shiny new stuff! I stay away from Curriculum fairs unless I have a specific list! This allows me to stay on tack and spend less money!
bostonmom

Marriage & parenting
Making time for each other

This is easy for us now, but in the past when the house was full of children and friends, sometimes we would forget to take time for one another!

We schedule a date monthly but also have a short amount of time daily when we ask not to be disturbed unless it is an emergency. It helps to keep me and my husband connected. Sometimes we discuss what is going on in our lives, balance the check book or just snuggle! It is a great way to come together at the end of the day!
bostonmom

Baking & cooking
Let the kids in the kitchen

I have found that the best way to teach your kids to cook is to just get them in there.

My daughter is scared to death of the kitchen; she said she was afraid of burning dinner. I make her help me daily, telling her that even mom burns things from time to time, and telling her about family recipes handed down from her great grandmother. I try encourage her that if she learns she may help with the Christmas cookies this year. I think she is coming around.
psalm32:8

Sewing & needlework
Let's teach our young girls to sew

I have found that almost no one sews anymore. I was so shocked to talk among my friends that homeschool, and most of them don't care about teaching their teens to sew. I thought I would try break the trend and bought my two teen girls each sewing baskets and patterns for Christmas this year. As a mother wanting my girls to dress modestly, I am finding it hard to buy modest clothing in most stores. Let's keep sewing alive!
psalm32:8
 
Baking & cooking
Cooking for Multiple Days

When fixing dinner, I go ahead and cook three to five entrees and freeze them. This allows me to simply thaw and warm dinner on several days. I then have a few extra minutes during the day for my kids, bathing the dog or my favorite -- a bubble bath! Or if has been a very busy day I do not have to worry with dinner -- it is already finished!
bostonmom


Have a weekly date night

Have a weekly date night and don't talk about the children. Keep your marriage alive and have fun together. Get regular babysitters and go out weekly. The children will love you more when you get home. Do something you haven't done before with hubby. Tell the babysitter if the house is clean and tidy when you get in you'll pay her extra.
frinhx

Marriage & parenting
Think before you speak

As parents, we sometimes think we know it all and don't let our kids talk before we yell. I have learned the hard way that if I breathe and then speak it comes from the heart, and it doesn't hurt or offend as much. That old saying ''speak tender words today, for tomorrow you may have to swallow them'' can come sooooo true.
beckie665

Marriage & parenting
The Lord's guidance

I have been praying as I have teen daughters, and I found a book titled ''I kissed dating goodbye''. Wow, what a book -- everyone should read this. It has very good points on dating that many of us may not think about.
psalm32:8