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Printable bits of wisdom, ideas, and reflections for your friends and
homeschool group, from the members of HomeschoolClassifieds.com
Opinions expressed are those of the individual authors.
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Finance/Econ
Buy It Used!

Obviously, we all shop here because we love a bargain, so I'm
probably preaching to the choir. I just want to affirm your reasons for
checking this site, and others like it, before plunking down your hard-
earned money for the great privilege of being the first to crack a book
open. Sure, I love that crisp-paged ''fresh from the publisher'' smell,
too, but not as much as I love the extra cushion in my wallet that I
have from buying ''pre-owned''.

I posted some items for sale today, and just for kicks (in the head, not
so much for fun) I looked them up to remind myself what I paid for
them new. Ouch! Naturally, it seemed like a good idea at the time. ''An
investment into your child's future!'' And, of course, it was. However,
as I look at the situation from your perspective, future owner of my
homeschool materials, I realize that had I been as patient, or aware,
as you, I could've saved myself a whole lot of cash and still made the
same investment.

So, as we peruse one another's items and calculate the costs, let us
congratulate ourselves that we aren't paying full price like the first
owner did!
trish-redd
 
Homeschool helps
Teach Them How to Learn

As a former home-schooling mother of 5 young adults, I have a unique perspective to share. Their fond recollections of homeschooling are so different from my own! Anytime someone piped up with a question, the automatic response was, ''hmm...go look it up, and when you find out the answer, come tell us so we'll all know.'' Back then, they thought I was teaching them how to use the encyclopedia, dictionary, etc., which I was, but mostly I was hiding my own ignorance.

On those awful, nothing-going-as-planned days, I would sometimes send them, all five, to go make up a story together in which everyone had a part while I dealt with the current crisis. My delight and shame would mingle together in sweet poignancy when they would perform their ''play'' for us hours later. I often took pictures of these moments, and yes, tucked them into their portfolios at the end of the year. The children don't remember the crisis and neither do I, but we all look at the pictures and recall the hilarious skits they performed.

Creative talent abounds in my children: artistry, photography, writing, fashion design, healing arts. While there are many things I didn't get around to teaching them, I've resolved to forgive myself for my shortcomings, and be exceedingly glad that they did learn the most important lesson of all: how to learn.
trish-redd

Organization/time management
Easy Incentive to Complete Day's Work

I have discovered a simple way to motivate students to complete their subjects.
We have cards with separate subjects listed on each one. We also have cards with ''done'' and ''undone'' on them. We line all of the subject cards up on the side of the chart that has the ''undone'' label on it. As the student completes the subject he or she moves the card to the ''done'' side of the chart. With only a glance the student can see how many subjects are still left to complete.
The next day just switch the ''done'' and ''undone'' labels and you are all set for the day again.
You would need some way to be able to stick them to and remove them from the chart. My daughter uses the window that is right next to her desk for the cards, and they are attached with tape.
livinglife4him
 
Organization/time management
Beyond the Basics

I'm finding that as my daughter is getting the basics down, she is picking up a lot of extras from her big brother. She's become a strong competitor in math especially, sometimes beating him to the answers!

I am also finding that as the basics are learned, i.e. reading especially, I can teach them together more often than not.
History and science are especially easy to teach them together.

I was getting aggravated that each grade level taught the same things in history. Every year it's the pilgrims and there's so much more than that! I have come to the conclusion that history can be learned better simply by reading to them, out loud. They enjoy it and we can learn about so many more things than Columbus and the Mayflower!

I'm looking forward to combining more subjects in the near future and simplifying my life even more!
myhalfpints

Homeschool helps
The Best Early Readers: Bob Books

Just giving you a heads-up on a fantastic product I discovered 20 years ago on the advice of Ruth Beechick. (If you've never heard of her, Google her and read everything she's ever written. The woman is a home-schooler's educational gold-mine.) Bob Books have been around for a very long time, and I guess they go in and out of ''season'', so get them while you can. I bought a set at Sam's Wholesale Warehouse for my 4 year-old grand-daughter a few months ago. My daughter looked at them nostalgically, and set them aside ''until she's ready, Mom''. Imagine our delight when, in the backseat of the car on a 2 hour road-trip, my grand-daughter and I discovered the world of reading. She proudly announced to her parents, ''I can read now! Listen: Bob. Bob sat...'' and proceeded to read them the whole book. Ok, the books only have about 20 words total, but hey... she was thrilled. And so are we.

The magic of Bob Books is in their brevity. If a child knows the sounds of even a few letters, and demonstrates enthusiasm about learning to read, she can get started.
trish-redd

Lang arts: phonics
Starfall.com

If you have not tried this site for any children starting the reading process, give it a try. It is a wonderful tool, especially if you have more than one student that needs more mommy attention and is not quite working on their own yet. A computer with a set of ear phones and this site are invaluable to our family!
hophr5
 
Special needs
Reading Problems

A few years ago we discovered that our youngest son is dyslexic. Although I had suspected dyslexia we didn't know where to start when we realized something had to be done to help him. We didn't know either that 1 in 5 or 6 children have this learning challenge. Now, after hours of research and finding valuable help for our son, I want to share with others that there is help and hope. YOU can teach your child to deal with this issue. The main source we have used is the Barton Reading and Spelling System. They have an online video you can watch about dyslexia.

IF you see your child struggling to read, or remember letter sounds, etc... it COULD be dyslexia. It may not be, but with 1 in 5 or 6 children having this problem, it may be a place for you to start. The sooner you can find the right help the better. Most children, IF they are ever diagnosed with this are not diagnosed until age 9 or 10.
budikboys

Handwriting
Never Too Early...

When your little three or four-year-old prodigy picks up her crayon to write her first note to Nana, pay attention to the way she begins her letters. She will remember how to copy most of them, but there may be a few that will require you to practice with her. Please, please, please... don't let incorrect habits form in handwriting because the error was ''too cute'' to correct.

Backwards N's, S's that begin from the bottom, Y's, K's, R's, b's and d's. Whatever the letter-making difficulty, find a phrase or ''script'' if you will, that your child can remember to associate with the letter, and repeat it out loud as she's writing the letter. A very good resource that addresses this is Romalda Spalding's The Writing Road to Reading. It is the absolute best phonics program I've ever seen, mainly because of it's simplicity and ease of use, and it will double as your handwriting curriculum, too!
trish-redd

Marriage & parenting
Double Standards

Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

If we want our children to continue practicing what we taught them, we must not have double standards. For example, if we taught our child not to eat junk food, we have to be consistent at all times, not to eat it. Let your yes be yes, and your no be no, there are no exceptions. We must also practice what we preach to them, or our words will have no meaning. Children are smarter than we think. They often follow our examples rather than what we tell them. Actions are stronger than words.
hcinfo
 
Bible & Spiritual growth
Practice What You Preach

Maximize the time you spend with God. Chances are you're homeschooling because you want to impart Godly principles to your children, along with a good education. They don't have to see you praying or reading your Bible to know whether you've done it; it will be evident in your behavior, especially when things aren't going ''just right''.

So, do yourself and everyone else in your house a favor. Take a break before the day even starts, and spend some time alone with the One who knows your heart best. When you daily recognize Him as the giver of all wisdom, seek His input, and give Him your frustrations and worries, your day (and that of your kids) will go a whole lot better.
trish-redd

Homeschool helps
Sure Cure for TV Addiction: Moderation

Is TV intruding on your child's ''free'' time? Time when you'd love to see him with a book, instead? Here's a little trick that worked with the young ones in my house: trade time. There was never a restriction on quantity of reading permitted, but for every 30 minutes reading, they could have 30 minutes of TV, up to 2 hours a day. (Sounds like a lot, I know, but far less than the national average, and when your kid is home all day, it could be worse.) The wonderful thing is that when the child gets hooked on reading a great story, you'll seldom have this struggle again. He will learn that nothing on tv can match the splendor of his imagination, and there are no commercial interruptions!
trish-redd

Organization/time management
Lesson Planning Made Easy

I grew up in a homeschooling home. My mom would write out lesson plans for each of us EACH week!! It was alot of work. Not only that, but if we fell behind or got ahead, it meant extra work, scratch outs and other frustrations. I have found www.homeschoolskedtrack.com.
You type your lessons in and it organizes everything!! It's great for record keeping too! It produces report cards and lots of other reports that are great to have.The best part is that if your kids fall behind or work ahead, it moves the lessons around for you! My mom said she wishes she had it when she was homeschooling!!
samiam0380

Health & PE
Nature Walks

As the weather warms up a bit, nature walks are a wonderful way for the little ones to stretch their legs. Take your camera and let your older children take pictures of the newly blooming flowers and trees. We always love this time of year.
learning4him
 
Homeschool helps
Handling Preschoolers While Teaching, I

Pack up all (or most) toys into boxes labeled Mon, Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri and Weekend. Each day while teaching that day's box is brought out to allow the preschooler to play with for the whole school day or just a designated time (when you are wanting to read aloud to the other children, do math or whatever) during the school day. The preschooler is only allowed to play with the contents of that box during that time/on that day. The box is then put away until the next time. This extends the life of your toys (the preschooler doesn't tire of them so fast) and gives you some precious minutes to school the other children.
mauilesa

Bible & Spiritual growth
Biblical Convictions

This is not from me, but I absolutely love this quote from Sally Clarkson: ''In the absence of biblical conviction, people go the way of culture.''

How very true! I see this happening everywhere, even in churches. The further away from God's standard that we get, the easier it is to conform to the world. I am praying today that God would just draw me close to His word and that I would not stray. I pray that for all Christians.
godsaggie

Marriage & parenting
Must Read Books for Married Couples

Have a New Husband by Friday by Kevin Leman
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
These books are really helpful in understanding your spouse. Men and women are different! Have a New Husband by Friday teaches the readers different perspectives on common miscommunication in marriages. The Five Love Languages will teach you how to love your spouse best. For example, does your spouse prefer gifts, service, time, touch, or words?
tammyo

Homeschool helps
Handling Preschoolers While Teaching, II

Plan 15-20 min segments of time into your older children's daily schedule to ''teach'' the preschooler (I have 4 children). My two youngest children were taught to tie their shoes, their abc's, numbers, phone number, house address, how to write their name, colors, shapes, simple math, etc by spending short, planned time with their older siblings. This keeps the presechooler busy and gives me a little one on one time with another child.
mauilesa
 
Other
Don't Give Up!

Don't give up homeschooling when it seems hard, but find a way to work through the problems. There were many times in the first few years of homeschooling that I wanted to give up and put my children back in school. I kept at it, though, and after several more years, the longer I homeschool, the less I want them to go back. There are just too many positives to homeschooling.
teachinmine

Marriage & parenting
Must Read Books for Parents

Have a New Kid by Friday by Kevin Leman
The Five Love Languages of children by Gary Chapman
These books are really helpful in understanding your children. They are also helpful for parenting skills. Making children responsible for their choices.
tammyo

Art & music
High Quality Music instruction for All!

It is my opinion that musical instruction for homeschoolers should also be the best that a parent can afford and offer the children. Its imperative that your children get the same opportunities as students in public schools and I would like to offer those opportunities and so much more to your children.
hcinfo

Ministry & missions
Grace and Truth Comes Through Jesus Christ

So many others help me each day to know how to teach my children - through books they have written. To many I am thankful for sharing their knowledge and experiences with me. But my love and patience to teach my children each day comes not from others nor myself but from Christ Jesus.
jjohnson