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Homeschool helps
Homeschooling Through Loss

When I was a child I lost a brother. After a week of funeral processions I went back to school where *life went on*. Some people wouldn't talk to me anymore and everything just seemed different. My parents set up for me to be able to visit with a counselor who was nice but still a stranger. I felt so alone and when it meant the most, I only had a stranger to turn to.

Fast-forward to my adult years and the loss of 2 children out of 6 all while homeschooling. It was almost more than we could bear, yet we were there for each other. Some days math got done, some days not. Some days we went through a whole box of Kleenex and some days we just held each other. But through it ALL, we were there for each other. My children were able to talk right in the middle of a spelling test.

I also got a book called Good Grief. It is just a little pamphlet but it helped us to see the process grief takes with not only me but my children. I was able to be there for them, to answer their questions, refer to scripture and draw them nearer to the Lord during their grief. For them to know it is OK to be angry, confused and just feel lost at times. My children deserve this and I can't imagine not being able to go through this with them.

Yes, we got some school done, but on OUR time and not someone else's. And my children know how to process the grief that life will always bring (sometimes sooner than later). What a glorious gift that God has given us through this process called Grief.
kristi

Unit studies
Less is More

This is our ninth year homeschooling using unit studies. My advice to beginning unit study users would be less is truly more. I have found that if I have the children read a good spine on the unit study topic and I read aloud to them a fictional work related to the topic that provides a good base for our unit study and is often enough. Don't be afraid to just pick and chose a few of the activities listed in your curriculum, this prevents burn out on the topic by both mom and students.
quiltmomof3
 
Marriage & parenting
Sporadic Leadership is Still Leadership...

We are Christian homeschoolers and part of that definition includes the fact that my husband is the ''head''of our homeschool -- even though I do most of the schooling. When my husband does exhibit leadership in the area of homeschooling, I submit to his leadership, as I am called by God to do...

Examples: A few months ago, I was telling my mom that we were going to skip cursive writing and go directly from print to keyboarding...he interrupted me and said he believed cursive was important and he didn't want it skipped. (I was thinking, ''why do you care about this...you don't know how to type and your handwriting is atrocious''...but I didn't say it....instead I made sure I had a cursive curricula lined up.)

A few weeks ago, my husband announced (out of the blue, it seemed) it was time for my very active son (read undiagnosed and unmedicated A.D.D.) to start learning how to read. Our son is 4.9 yo and I had planned on waiting until at least age 6 for reading instruction. Again, I did not argue with my husband or question him...I pulled out a phonics program and we (my son and I) work on it daily. My son is progressing well and my husband inquires about his progress frequently.

My husband is definitely not the ''principal'' of our homeschool -- micro-management is not his style. I appreciate his opinion and his leadership, however sporadic. And when I joyfully submit to his leadership, we all benefit.
ajvarnado

Organization/time management
Scheduling School Work

At our local office supply store, I bought a dry-erase type board that has each of the 7 days of the week in rather large blocks. We hang it on the back of a door on our first floor, close to our books/school supplies. Every first day of schooling for the week, I put our boys' assignments for the week. As soon as they complete a subject for the day, they wipe off the subject. It makes them feel good to erase it, and we have no wasted paper!
laurandrew
 
Bible & Spiritual growth
Where are we now?

Alexander Tyler, about the fall of the Athenian Republic -- As received from a reader. The year is 1787:

''A democracy is always temporary in nature; it simply cannot exist as a permanent from of government. A democracy will continue to exist up until the time that voters discover they can vote themselves generous gifts from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates who promises the most benefits from the public treasury, with the result that every democracy will finally collapse due to loose fiscal policy, which is always followed by a dictatorship. The average age of the worlds greatest civilizations from the beginning of history, has been about 200 years. During those 200 years, these nations always progressed through the following sequence.

1. From bondage to spiritual faith
2. From spiritual faith to great courage
3. From courage to liberty
4. From liberty to abundance
5. From abundance to complacency
6. From complacency to apathy
7. From apathy to dependence
8. From dependence back into bondage
kozkrew

Other
Many Thanks to Home Schoolers

I would like to send out a warm and fuzzy ''THANK YOU'' to the home schooling community for helping me through the dizzying process of picking out curriculum.

We are taking our son from traditional school to home school for the first time in fourth grade. There is so much information available that it can really make your head spin. I have been confused, bewildered, baffled, befuddled, flustered, (where's my thesaurus?), and utterly flabbergasted at the amount of curriculum available. The guidance from friends and complete strangers has been equally calming. I have been amazed with the willingness home schoolers have to reach out and guide me through the process. Thanks to all of you who answered my oh-so-many questions and helped me clear confusion.
kalladawn
 
Other
Getting Started

I am just getting started with home schooling. My daughter (6) will be in first grade next year. She went to a public school this year and has done well but we feel like this is what God wants for our family.

I used to be very against home schooling. My husband wanted me to do it but I always said ''never.'' Well I've recently learned to never say never! God may have different plans.

So when I started looking into how this all worked I quickly got overwhelmed with the amount of material and curriculum options out there! I couldn't decide what I wanted to use and was worried that I'd pick the wrong thing for my daughter.

God is showing me what's right for her needs and abilities. Now I'm starting to order materials from a variety of publishers and I'm very excited to get them and start planning our first grade year.

So, my advice to those just getting started, don't feel too overwhelmed at first. Step back, pray about it and let God show you what He wants you to use for your family. I'm SO excited to start on this journey next fall!
ohmomjacquie

Other
I Love Homeschooling Because...

We have the flexibility to do what God has called us to as a family. Our family recently got home from a six month ministry trip across the United States. We traveled from Washington to Florida, staying with friends, and ministering in practical ways, teaching and prayer. We spent two months serving Youth With A Mission in Orlando. My son helped my husband construct fences, shelves, repair soffits, roof a house, build a workshop and much more. My daughter had the opportunity to serve in the office at YWAM doing some cleaning and stuffing envelopes.

Along the way, we also had amazing educational opportunities that we wouldn't have had any other way. We were blessed to see a space shuttle launch, visit several space museums, we saw the Shiloh battlefield, the Vicksburg Nat'l Military Park, several caves, Mt. Rushmore, the Grand Canyon, Yosemite and more.

We spent all of our time together as a family, learning, growing and serving. We're planning to go back to YWAM Orlando to spend a year helping them build a new base to serve their students and staff. We're so thankful that we have the privilege of homeschooling our kids so that we can have such wonderful opportunities!
crystalinwa
 
Other
Free Online Courses

National Repository of Online Courses (NROC) offers FREE online, self-directed courses for high school and college learning. They even have a number of AP classes. This might be a great option for any self-motivated learners out there.

The website is: http://www.montereyinstitute.org/nroc/index.html
(click on HippoCampus)

The list of available courses is here: http://www.montereyinstitute.org/pdf/NROCCourseList.pdf
leaird

Lang arts: readers/literature
Border's Summer Reading Program

Borders is conducting a summer reading program where they will give your child a free book after they read 10 books. Check out the website for all of the details and forms to fill out.

http://www.borders.com/online/store/MediaView_doubledogdare
leaird

Other
Nowhere Else to Go

I love the quote by Abraham Lincoln. ''I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go.'' Some days as a homeschool mom and taking care of little ones we may feel overwhelmed. It is only the Lord that can get us through. Even Abraham Lincoln knew that he had nowhere else to turn except to God.
jenpeterson5

Lang arts: readers/literature
Barnes & Noble Summer Reading Program

Barnes & Noble is conducting their kids summer reading program where kids receive a free book after reading 8 books. Read the details and download the forms at:

http://www.barnesandnoble.com/summerreading/index.asp
leaird

Lang arts: readers/literature
Stress Less

Stress less and remember to have fun! The children grow up, despite not having read every literature selection on ''the list''. That's fine...let them have something to discover anew with their own children some day.
sherlearning
 
Homeschool helps
Study Help

When studying, my visual/kinesthetic learner does best if she draws pictures of information (e.g., drawing parts of an animal for biology, rather than simply memorizing terms.) Then she explains the drawing to me. A fuller understanding of the content is what results, as well as far greater retention. It's lots more fun as well!
cathbrier

Ministry & missions
John 3:16

The offer still stands!

Let's not forget the reason we are on this earth. Christians have been given a mandate by Jesus to spread the gospel.
rosehaven