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Circumventing Paypal Fees is Dishonest

I've noticed a trend this past week, as I've been buying and selling items via this website. In three transactions a person has either used, or asked me to use the ''Friends & Family'' option to circumvent paying Paypal fees.

This morning a seller emailed that she only accepts nonfee Paypal payments! I kindly emailed back I would be happy to pay extra to cover the Paypal fees as I was uncomfortable circumventing them.

Today I added to my page a note that I include the cost of Paypal fees in my ppd price, since I understand I'm paying for the convenient services available, both instantaneous money transfers and online shipping transactions.

As a Christian I feel extremely uncomfortable with this trend. It is dishonest, a form of theft and sullies the reputation of this site and its users. Agreeing to use Paypal's services is also an agreement to pay their fees in order to benefit and make use of their services. Paypal is NOT a nonprofit organization; it's a business with employees!

I realize it is my responsibility to discuss this with potential buyers and sellers, and that the owners of this site cannot control transactions agreed upon by users of the site. However I felt compelled to post about this trend, since I had not experienced it prior to this summer.

Let's uphold the excellent reputation of this site and NOT circumvent Paypal fees. Include the fees in your ppd price. Expect that is part of what you are covering when you purchase via Paypal!

Homeschool Classifieds is invaluable to the homeschool community. Let's keep it honest!
mirandashome
 
Homeschool helps
Encouragement for the Journey

Some days are just hard! The temptation to quit--to load your kids up on that yellow bus--can be overwhelmingly attractive. Take a break, if you must, but do not quit.

I just recently became a former homeschool mom because my last child graduated from our home educating academy. It is a strange feeling. I'm rather giddy with the prospect of a new adventure, relieved that my educational responsibility is over, and thrilled that the job is done. But I am also a little sad. I miss stories on the couch and hugs all around. I miss snow days when we could play while the snow was good and thick and then have hot cocoa while we did math for the day. I miss the daily shepherding of my little ones. I miss the deep questions we got to explore together. They are all adults now--big, opinionated and no longer needing my attention. I'm not sad about that, just noticing the change. This is good. It is the lauch we were working toward.

Now I am launched, too. There is a bright new adventure before me. It is bright today because I stayed the course and finished the job to which God called me.

I encourage you now. Stay. Find a way or make a way. Do not give up on your original dream for educating your children. Give yourself and your children loads of grace. Revel in the joy of being with your children, in their development and in your own pleasure as you create a life of deep, rich relationships with the most important people in your life.
dasnyder78

Lang arts: spelling/vocab
From yuk to yeah!

I have a child who did not care for English. She started reading
and found that she could venture into other lands and explore
lives that she otherwise would not have access to through
reading. Now, she loves to read and scores best in English.
Don’t give up on a subject or your child; there is hope!!
4saletx
 
Math: fundamentals
Removing the Block

Math is important. It's the language of science. As adults our children will use arithmetic and mathematics in varying degrees throughout their lives. This can make a homeschool mom rather tense about accomplishing every single lesson on-time and with mastery.
But some children struggle.
My oldest student got stuck at long division. We spent more than a week on one lesson and pushed so hard that it became an emotional problem. Crying and gnashing of teeth became closely associated with doing math each day. It became emotional for me, too. I felt panic. If I could not teach my child this, how would we be able to call our homeschooling a success? We needed a win, badly!

Luckily, I came upon an idea that removed the block. The topic of the next chapter was something simple, like time. I knew we could do well at that. So I made a change. We moved on to the next chapter and after a few days of doing well, I added ONE long division problem to the assignment for the day.
WaaLa! The emotion was removed. Confidence returned.
By the end of the next chapter, we had finished the long division chapter.

Take courage. Observe. Adjust. Be Creative!
Remove the emotion. Go for the win. You and your child will be successful!
dasnyder78

Bible & Spiritual growth
Is God Real?

I have had people ask me if I believe God is real. When I say
yes, they always say why? Well, I see God’s hand on my child
each and every day of school. He helps her in the subjects she
is not particularly fond of. He takes friends out of her life that
would be destructive. He coaches and empowers her to take
the SAT. Yes, I see God working in our everyday life and just
because someone else does not believe certainly does not mean
He does not exist. Take care!
4saletx
 
Math: alg/calc/geom/etc.
When will I use this stuff?

My child questions me as to when algebra and geometry will be
used in real life? I say probably never BUT math teaches you to
think. There is always a right answer and you can put your
values in your formula and check if it is correct. Very succinct
and orderly.
4saletx